Executive Sub-hand with the son of a long marriage

Executive Sub-hand with the son of a long marriage

December 6, 2008 late in the evening, the weather has been cold the. The north wind whistled, gloomy days. In my ward Shouhou a dying wife, and my heart like a Crimping a stone, heavy breath. Doctors and nurses are busy with rescue his wife in the end failed to break hurdle of her head resting on my right arm, left hand still holding my hand tightly, pain and are unable to eyes looked at me and swallowing the last breath. She has exhausted speechless, and did not give me leave fragmentary. However, I know from that familiar with her eyes say, «picking up a child's hand, and the son of a long marriage.» She was very satisfied, very calm, which always left me.

His wife, named Zheng Qin, who died last Zhongyuan Oilfield sixth secondary school third-grade English teacher, I Anyang Teachers classmates during school. It was the autumn of 1964, is the season of autumn, we all admitted to the Anyang Normal School. She comes from coal worker's family, I come from the rural poor in the Central Plains. Three years of school life we have forged a profound friendship, we were playing basketball, singing and dancing along with speech programs, along with the students as a class cadre organizations, activities, along with the best of his life time. Graduated, that is what the Cultural Revolution, when so much noise the most fierce, the agency is busy rebel cadres, the struggle capitalist roader, no one control our distribution. I, as a special move of troops have been received a military sub-units, but she like to take this to be allocated during the period and several teams of students composed of literature and art, to go to that place Linxian Hongqiqu very difficult to perform in rural areas. Each night, we talked all night. We do not know what the future can do. However, our hearts are hot, as if affixed in close to two hearts. Two years later, I followed the army to the Jianghan Plain, supporting third-line construction, development of 57 oil fields (now Jianghan Field) went to her school for the children in a coal mine when the teacher, in 1970 New Year's Day, we went into the marriage, palace.

Married life is sweet, the lack of material life and the pursuit of knowledge does not affect the feelings of two young men. In 1976, our one-year-old daughter has more. Know the field of English training institute organized the news, she did not sleep the night exciting. The Cultural Revolution wasted too much of our youth, it must be added back. For me to look after her daughter, she lives in training there, study hard, got one year after the successful English language training in Jingzhou district teacher qualification certification. Accumulation of knowledge is to set sail, in 1989 she was back with me to Zhongyuan Oilfield, when I was a corporate party propaganda chief, she was the sixth secondary schools, has been sending three of the graduating class. While we take significant steps on the road cause when the disease has quietly hit to my wife. 2089 was also in December, his wife were in school, Dean's Office a few days before the examination results of single-teacher sent to her hands, the result is positive breast cancer. This is undoubtedly as bolt from the blue, my heart completely in turmoil. In the year under the condition of our country's health care, cancer and death is a concept, which means that a life must end. And I to each other, sharing weal and woe of his wife desperately accumulation of knowledge, in her community to redouble their efforts to reward people when they got an incurable disease, and she bear it do? Her beloved career, and our lovely daughter, how her face? Doctors said that surgery should be implemented immediately. I took over to father a few days later his wife has become a big surgery to remove a breast cut out, and surgery the doctor told me: «The operation was successful, but only to ensure survival of three years.» Three-ah in just three years is that we live in an end? If the doctor is like a paper verdict. We must put off for three years as the past three decades, and disease resistance, I have no choice.

Need radiotherapy and chemotherapy after surgery, when the Zhongyuan Oilfield no medical conditions, I'll send his wife, Anyang Tumor Hospital. Remember, that the special cold winter evening, we went to the hospital to send the car radiator is a Frost Crack. His wife over and over again after treatment of hair loss, vomiting, anorexia, I was 200 oil did you get inside to outside the gas tank, cook their own food conditioning life, I also brought a tape recorder to give her her favorite place we all love the music. Treatment gap, I borrowed her bike through the Anyang Tuozhao Old Trail, north of the city from the hospital where we had three years off to the south off Normal School students, one by one to find that happy memories of his youth. School is still kind of quiet and tranquil, green tile brick classrooms nestles among the flowers in the trees. It put us into the era of that well-being of young adolescents harbor, when the students one by one and that innocent smile, that are familiar with the plants and trees can cause us some fun memories, can stir our hearts for many years hidden ripples of love. Hou time our daughter has been in high school, there is no time to take care of her, let her daughter live on campus. I am desperately in hospitals, schools, work units running between. In order for their wives struggle with the disease to reduce that pain, in order to revive the passion for living the good life. Three years a course of radiotherapy with chemotherapy each year we have persevered, the wife tenaciously survived. Some power is huge Shuo Ai this point my wife and I who have been verified.